Those of you who know me, know that I am not a crafty mama. Those of you who know me well though know that I do more crafts with my kids than I'll admit. I think it's kind of like cooking. I cook pretty much every night, and it's from scratch and healthy, but I don't consider myself a cook. Basically every month I get a new issue of Cooking Light, and try most of the recipes. The ones I like I save, and everything else gets tossed in the recycling bin. Next month I do the same and use some of the saved recipes from previous months as well. I think like with crafts, it's because it's alright to do, but not something that I would like to be defined by. Also much like cooking, with crafts it depends just exactly how complicated the project is.
Every year up until now I have bought Valentine's cards from the grocery store. You know the ones that cost a couple bucks particularly if you wait until the day before your child's preschool Valentine's Day party? That would be the ones. One year I even bought them on clearance after Valentine's Day and saved them. Time is money though and the amount of time I spent trying to find them the following Valentine's was not enough to justify the dollar or two difference!
This year my older son (OS) announced he wanted to make Valentines. What?! I smiled and said sure confident that in another day or so this crazy idea would pass particularly when he saw the boxes of cards at the store. Unfortunately for me it did not and instead it turned into him nagging me to take him to get supplies. Monkey see monkey do and my younger son (YS) was also clamoring to make his own.
Here's what I came up with also to be cross-posted at Crafts for the Clueless.
Set your own definition for homemade. Mine was that it's made in your home not that every single aspect has to be your child's own original work.
Buy a container of heart shaped foam stickers.
Buy a package of construction paper. Yes, you would assume that parents of small children would have this, but hey this blogger gives her kids computer paper for drawings. I personally recommend nipping the idea of only pink and red in the bud and focusing on how surely someone would love a valentine made from the black paper that always comes in packs of construction paper
Buy a pack of Valentine's stickers. I got a huge pack for $1.
Glitter pens add a nice touch. Do not however buy glitter unless you want to be finding traces of it for the next ten years. This is one aspect of crafting I have always remained firm about with my kids. I swear my parents are still finding glitter in the cracks of their kitchen table from my brother back in the 80's. Sure kids should use glitter...at preschool and at someone else's house
Try not to think about how much more money your "homemade" cards are costing than the cheap-o box of Valentine's at CVS even with a coupon.
Use the base of the foam container to trace Valentine's. Ours happened to be heart shaped which worked out great, but honestly the kids would have been happy with squares or circles
Cut out enough for each kid in the class. Place them on the table with crayons, markers and your new supplies and let them loose*. Tell them to make sure each paper is decorated.
Drink a cup of coffee and just relax. No really, don't try to tell them how to decorate their cards. It's their project after all. Just be glad you used construction paper instead of computer paper because it's sturdier for all the decorations aka glitter glue.
I really did let them do whatever they wanted and other than help them start a few new glitter pens and peel a couple more complicated foam stickers at the beginning, I was able to sit back and relax. There really wasn't much to clean up either. I have to say it occupied them for over hour and the results were pretty impressive. Now of course I just have to fight the urge to write a note on the back of each Valentine telling the recipient they better treasure the Valentine because it was handmade after all!
A. Elliot's Lesson Learned: The term homemade is defined by the creator of the craft.
*Normally I would have used this as an opportunity for practicing cutting, but I was worried that it was just too much for them to do; in other words, they would cut out the shapes but I would end up decorating them! Seeing as OS does fine with scissors and YS is only 3 I decided to go ahead and cut out the shapes by cutting 4 pieces of paper at a time to speed up the process.
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